Biyernes, Enero 17, 2014

Math? MatHARD? MaTIRED?

     Most of us especially college students are experiencing having a hard time coping up with solving  Math problems. I could even say that Math is the most difficult among other subjects because it requires a lot of analyzation, logic and imagination as well. There are people we can say that are really good in Math, maybe because they are given such talent of having a higher mathematical skill, but don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean that when they are good in Math. you can't be like one of them. Well, I hope these tips will help you coping up with your Math subject:

1.) Just keep practicing! They say that 'Practice makes perfect.' Every first time is a difficult one so don't lose hope when you answered something and you didn't get the right answer. In fact, you must practice even more. In this way, it would lessen your pressure having a hard time answering your math problems.

2.) Don't strain your BRAIN. It means that too much studying and too much 'paranoia' will just make things worse. In my first statement,  I said that in order for us to lessen our difficulty in math, we should practice it, but it doesn't mean that we should strain our 'heads' solving too much math problems. I could even conclude that 'too much' is also bad for us. That means that if you already know the process and already practiced it for two to three times, so what's the sense of practicing it again for 5 times or 8 times or even 10 times? Believe me, it'll just ruin up what you have already learned, all you just need to do is to believe in yourself that you can answer that certain problem in Math.

3.) Always be careful with 'signs'. This is the most common problem among the students when it comes in solving problems. Sometimes, though we already know the certain process in a problem, we're still having a hard time getting its right answer, me as well, is having a problem when it comes in solving because like you, I'm also having this most common mistake that's why it turned out that I am  getting the wrong answer at the end. Well just remember, always be careful in solving because one mistake will ruin everything you've done. 

4.) Double check your answers. After solving, you must also double check if you have skipped or forgotten  something in your work. In this way, it'll lessen up your wearies if what you have answered is right or wrong. 

5.) Don't be too much confident. Having so much confident in your work will just ruin everything you've done. In fact, when you are so confident in answering problems, you'll be even more confused. I don't say that you shouldn't be confident when answering, but of course, like what I just said , "too much" is bad. Just keep calm and do your work as possibly as you could and make sure that you have no worries about your answers.

6. Stay focus. It means that you shouldn't be distracted easily when something distracts you. Just stay devoted on what you're doing and don't mind those people around you. Just do what you need to do even though you're the very last person who will pass the paper in class, the most important thing is that you answered it surely. Another thing is , sometimes, when we see our classmates passing their paper in a short period of time, or we see some of our classmates already passing their works, we are becoming bothered and can't focus on what we're doing already. Just remember, it's not about who finished first and who finished last, it's about you and what you're doing. Just stay calm and do your work, take it easy, no one is forcing you to pass your work when there is still time doing it so don't hassle.

I hope these tips will help you!

Martes, Hunyo 18, 2013

Ways on How to Develop Your Self-Confidence:


 Have you ever felt awkward when approaching people? Do you look down when you talk with the person you think has a higher standard than you? Do you get nervous when introducing yourself on the first day of class or talking in front of the class? Do you feel shy when talking to people you're not that close with? Have you ever mumbled or mental blocked because you weren't feeling comfortable and been defeated with fears? Well, I can give you some tips to overcome all of these:

1.) Be yourself at all times. Yes, we can say that there are some people that'll consider who you are but there are also people who don't, so whoever you are and whatever you do, just be yourself; don't be like someone you aren't because it might just get worse but it doesn't mean not to take your own limitations. Just being yourself is one of the important things to do to build up your self-confidence--- act and talk normal---. This will pave way for you to earn more friends and give you more esteem to face your classmates in front without shaking or feeling nervous once you get there.

2.) Nobody cares. Remember, you're not the only human in which every person is looking at. Always remember that everything will work out just fine, people will just listen and look at you but won't do anything to harm you, in fact, they also experience that kind of situation so remember that everything is just tantamount and nervousness is just the product of your mind.

3.) Don't get distracted  on what you see. Sometimes, our fatal flaw is seeing people looking or depending on what we say, and it came out we're making everything worse. I tell you, you shouldn't get distracted on what you see, especially if people are looking at you from eye to eye.  I know it's kind of fearful, unappreciative feeling but you must need to fight it. Just focus on what you're doing to aim a good result.

4.) Cool down and stretch out. According to what I've researched, stretching will somehow boost up your self-confidence. Doing this will make you feel in ease and can also help you relax your muscles  for you to calm down and bring out what's the best in you.

5.) Always be optimistic. Having a positive attitude towards things will also develop your self-confidence. If you are a positive person, you will learn to handle things by your own, you can also practice leadership if you have this kind of attitude. But always stay humble---- being optimistic doesn't mean that you dominate yourself from everybody---- and if ever there are some suggestions of somebody, you should also listen to him/her in order for you to have a good companionship and understanding with one another.

6.) Stop worrying too much. For all we know, we experience that kind of attitude whenever we are assigned to make a speech, recite, explain something or go in front of the class. Worrying too much will also make you forget the things you need to say and will lessen your esteem to show what you've got . Just go with an easy flow, fear is just in you, but if you look on the abyss or the very corner of things around you, you will see that your fear is just nothing compare to the threats of the world and fears of other person which is really worth the fear. 

7.) Love everything around you. Everything that you experience and you see has its own purpose in your life. Always accept everything that comes to your way and always face all of it with no fears, worry, or regrets. Just go with it whether the outcome is good or bad. Embrace all of it and love everything you experience. Always have fun and accept everything around you and your experiences because life is much worthy if we live worthy so don't waste anytime of your life cause you can't go back already in the past, the only thing you need to do is just to focus on the person you are today, the present one, and the challenging one.

Hopefully these tips helpyou! 

Lunes, Hunyo 3, 2013

My Dog is my Property

   
"My Dog is My Property"

                 This best-selling book really inspired me a lot. It was a real-life story of John Grogan together with his own family and his worst dog ever, Marley. Marley is such a mischievous, incorrigible dog of the family;  he used to break their doors, eat their furniture and even dump at their visitors when they come. But despite of these, Marley had been such a wonderful, loyal, playful, exuberant, and lovely dog. He had a lot of happy memories together with the Grogans, though sometimes, he's one of the reasons of their annoyance and distraction. I got attached to this story because I have a dog too named Isko, he is such a cute, naughty,  uncontrollable, genital sniffer dog who always makes us all smile through his loopy action and unconditional love for us. Isko really has the same temperament as Marley, in fact, he had just ripped off our tissue paper a while ago with his white sharp fiercely teeth. Of course, it was a mess, a mess that would make us ecstatic and make fun of him. Isko, like one of the hyperactive dogs who likes to rip things off, still gets tired. And yes, he also likes sleeping. Sleeping is one of the things Isko does whenever he gets bored or nothing to play with. He likes sleeping so much that he even snores so loud, and when he gets up, he has big round eye dust each from the corner of his eyes. There was a part in the story that the couple decided to let Marley be neutered because of too much arouse and having sexed with their leg and some of their visitors. There was also the time when my parents decided to lose the masculinity of Isko by having him neutered. But Isko should be thankful it didn't happen. Neutered would cost us a lot of money and we cannot afford it easily, though it will benefit Isko especially to us because his lust for sex will be over. Poor Isko, just as innocent dog as he is, should be thankful my parents didn't continue ending his masculinity. Well for me, it's normal for dogs especially male dogs to get into this stage finding a mate and let do-what-you-get thing popped out in their minds, but hopefully someday, they might stop the urge of taking it as an advantage as they grow up and reached the stage of maturity. Their are a lot of things I like from Isko: He likes to chase cats, dogs, insects, rolling objects and as well as US.. well yeah, sounds annoyance but it's  true, I like it when he does that, sounds sarcastic right? I know.. I know.. please pardon me.. Oh well, here is the funny thing when Isko chases me, whenever he chases me, he's like a cheetah, yes probably a cheetah cause he really runs so fast and I couldn't run without sliding, stumbling, or outbalancing myself, then it turned out I'm already limping. Yeah, sometimes it's fun to tease and play with dogs but be careful, it's sorta kind of dangerous thing to do. Poop. Oh yes poop, I'm really having a hard time to get Isko's poops out, I usually ask guidance or help from my mom to get the poop of Isko. I could even say "This is the ever worst time of my entire life!!". Isko usually sleeps with us at night, but he's always sleeping beside my mom's mattress. He feels like he's also a human that's why I always call him "feeler" , and apparently, Isko's really a feeler, he thinks that he is the dominant among the members of the family. There are also times when Isko,  looks at the mirror to see his face,  then I was like hiding behind the door of our bedroom, crazily hiding from him watching as he look at his face at the mirror just in front of our stairs, I always hear him whimpering and whining desperately like he's resenting himself from being just a dog and not like us. There are a lot of things and funny moments I had with Isko, but of course, I can't write all of it here. Thanks for reading my precious and lovable moments with my dog, I hope I made you laugh of these. But just another tip for you: Always treat and love your dog like one of the members your family because in return, that dingo will soon return the favor you have given to him/her.



Martes, Mayo 7, 2013

Afraid Someone is Better Than You?

Afraid Someone Is Better Than You?

Have you ever felt the feeling of jealousy and fearfulness that somebody is better than you and could be able to do things you can't do? That he or she might probably be the smartest student in class and expert in everything? Well here are some tips for you:

1, ) Don't think too much on other's success. Just  do what you think will aim you high  in order for you to get good grades in school. Take down notes and always listen to your prof/teacher/instructor. And if ever someone could be able to aim high that you can't outsmart with, let them. They also pursue hard just to attain those grades and success. 

2.) Another one is competing with them. Sometimes, we tend to compete with grades and whenever the results are given, we tend to look at somebody's result if we have better grades than them or they have better grades than us. Always remember that grades don't measure the intelligence of a person. 

3.) We usually judge a person we don't know yet. Okay, let's admit this: Sometimes, we can see a higher potential of a person to become a successful citizen someday or he/she has the capability to aim good grades and honor in school. But it doesn't mean we put a grudge or resentment on that person because of being so smart. Instead, let's be friends with them and be happy for their success.

4.) Dreams are dangerous. Why I say that it's because sometimes, if we aim to achieve our dreams, we turned to be a bad person: We become jealous, paranoid and will not always be contented on things. Well for all we know, all of us have our own dreams and we want to achieve it but it doesn't mean that you will force yourself too much just to achieve that because if it is for you, it will happen and if not, maybe you need to walk on the other side of things which probably will be better for you.

5. Always be contented on what you have. Contentment will make you a better person as you are. You don't need to compete with things. Just live in a simple way of life. Always go with the flow and be happy on the things you already have. Remember this: A poor person with contentment in life is richer than a rich person who is always not contented on everything he/she has.

I hope these tips will help you!. 

Miyerkules, Mayo 1, 2013

HOW TO GET RID OF FAILURE


HOW TO GET RID OF FAILURE:
 For all we know, most of us tend to have failures in life. We sometimes even want to give up already because for us, everything won't be changed and worked well. We even become hopeless on things which make us become weaker as what we really are. We used to be worried on many things and become so paranoid like our entire world is going to end. Well, because of these, I managed to give you some tips on how to get rid of your failure , move on and start a new one.



1. Failure is just the first step of your success.

 - Every man has his own failure, but it doesn't mean that it is the end of pursuing our dreams. For all we know, many people wish to attain their own goals in life but sometimes, they lack courage to pursue it because of hardships they encounter especially if we are in the most of our desperate situation in life. But, instead of thinking too much on your failure, it's better if you try to move on and continue to pursue it to achieve everything you want to have and think that you aren't the only person in the world who lost or had failure in life. And remember, failure is only the first step to your success which means, everything and every part of your life could still be change and work out well.

2. Never give up.
- Have you ever felt a feeling of despair because you know that you already did everything you can do just to pursue your dreams but still isn't enough to make it? These three words will help you to be motivated on going on and moving forward from your frustration: "Never Give Up." The most enchanting words I can advice you to look on the positive side of things. It means that if you really want something, you don't easily give up on them as long as you think and you feel the guts that you can do it. Well, some of us have already tried not to give up on things and still kept on going but, when there is something that they think hinders them to pursue it, they become pessimistic and stop pursuing what they want. But as you know, everybody can still change as long as they live and have a better life in the future. Three magical words: Never Give Up.

3. Stop being envious.
-  For all we know, being envious means you don't want others to attain their success. It also means that it is hard for you to accept the reality that you lost. You know, sometimes, life is like a gamble; sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Have you ever felt the feeling of  being down and resented some people for achieving their own success in a short period time while you strive really hard just to have what he or she has already gotten? Well I tell you, maybe it's just because it's already in his or her own fate that that person could be able to attain it in a short period of time. We must accept the reality that not  all of us are given such talents to easily have whatever we want; sometimes, we must really urge well for our success even though it's  already like giving you a reason to give up, or maybe, they were just given such talents or an intuition on a certain kind of skill that you don't have and you still need to develop. Just like smart people. For all we know, they used to get good grades in school and have specialized logical skills in everything.This means that you shouldn't be envious with them because they have that kind of ability. Just study hard and try discover your own talents also, maybe not in school works but other talents that will suit you and makes you a better person as you are. 

4. Just go with an easy flow.
-  This means you shouldn't go back from the past or think about your future. Just go with the present and make it a better one. Let's elaborate it deeply: When you look at the past, it'll just make you hopeless on things and you can even remember your failure which will just give you too much headache and probably stop you from aiming your dreams. Always remember not to look back and just focus on the person you are today. Don't think about your future. That doesn't necessarily mean not to dream high but it just tells you  to expect less. Thinking about the future makes you even paranoid and can also leads you to despair if you don't achieve it someday. Let's just say that it's better if you're doing now what you think will benefit you someday and let the time go by and tells you that everything you work hard for were all such  heavy burdens that you have overcome and the reward is your success. Success cannot be easily attained by just dreaming about the future, you really need to step on the thorns to get what you really want. Do not assume, just take an easy flow, and let the time go by as it tells you the verdict of your fate.

5. Life is just simple, we are just making it complicated.
- This is one of the quotes or the philosophies I love the most. This was made by the well known Chinese philosopher, Confucius. Apparently, life is just simple, we are just making it complicated because we want to earn more or gain more. But if you look on the brighter side of things, you will say that you are the luckiest person in the world because you already have everything you need to have. Well I didn't say not to pursue your dreams but if you think, it give you a feeling of sob, maybe you need to find another route of your life or there is a possibility that God has another plans for you and will suit your ability or what you are used for. Just simply live life to the fullest, if it is for you then it will happen and if not, don't be sad, there are still other chances that you will have.

I hope these steps will help you to get rid of your failures in life. Just sharing some of my wisdom and I  hope it'll motivate you!