HOW TO GET RID OF FAILURE

HOW TO GET RID OF FAILURE:

 For all we know, most of us tend to have failures in life. We sometimes even want to give up already because for us, everything won't be changed and worked well. We even become hopeless on things which make us become weaker as what we really are. We used to be worried on many things and become so paranoid like our entire world is going to end. Well, because of these, I managed to give you some tips on how to get rid of your failure , move on and start a new one.

1. Failure is just the first step of your success.

 - Every man has his own failure, but it doesn't mean that it is the end of pursuing our dreams. For all we know, many people wish to attain their own goals in life but sometimes, they lack courage to pursue it because of hardships they encounter especially if we are in the most of our desperate situation in life. But, instead of thinking too much on your failure, it's better if you try to move on and continue to pursue it to achieve everything you want to have and think that you aren't the only person in the world who lost or had failure in life. And remember, failure is only the first step to your success which means, everything and every part of your life could still be change and work out well.

2. Never give up.

- Have you ever felt a feeling of despair because you know that you already did everything you can do just to pursue your dreams but still isn't enough to make it? These three words will help you to be motivated on going on and moving forward from your frustration: "Never Give Up." The most enchanting words I can advice you to look on the positive side of things. It means that if you really want something, you don't easily give up on them as long as you think and you feel the guts that you can do it. Well, some of us have already tried not to give up on things and still kept on going but, when there is something that they think hinders them to pursue it, they become pessimistic and stop pursuing what they want. But as you know, everybody can still change as long as they live and have a better life in the future. Three magical words: Never Give Up.

3. Stop being envious.

-  For all we know, being envious means you don't want others to attain their success. It also means that it is hard for you to accept the reality that you lost. You know, sometimes, life is like a gamble; sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Have you ever felt the feeling of  being down and resented some people for achieving their own success in a short period time while you strive really hard just to have what he or she has already gotten? Well I tell you, maybe it's just because it's already in his or her own fate that that person could be able to attain it in a short period of time. We must accept the reality that not  all of us are given such talents to easily have whatever we want; sometimes, we must really urge well for our success even though it's  already like giving you a reason to give up, or maybe, they were just given such talents or an intuition on a certain kind of skill that you don't have and you still need to develop. Just like smart people. For all we know, they used to get good grades in school and have specialized logical skills in everything.This means that you shouldn't be envious with them because they have that kind of ability. Just study hard and try discover your own talents also, maybe not in school works but other talents that will suit you and makes you a better person as you are. 

4. Just go with an easy flow.

-  This means you shouldn't go back from the past or think about your future. Just go with the present and make it a better one. Let's elaborate it deeply: When you look at the past, it'll just make you hopeless on things and you can even remember your failure which will just give you too much headache and probably stop you from aiming your dreams. Always remember not to look back and just focus on the person you are today. Don't think about your future. That doesn't necessarily mean not to dream high but it just tells you  to expect less. Thinking about the future makes you even paranoid and can also leads you to despair if you don't achieve it someday. Let's just say that it's better if you're doing now what you think will benefit you someday and let the time go by and tells you that everything you work hard for were all such  heavy burdens that you have overcome and the reward is your success. Success cannot be easily attained by just dreaming about the future, you really need to step on the thorns to get what you really want. Do not assume, just take an easy flow, and let the time go by as it tells you the verdict of your fate.

5. Life is just simple, we are just making it complicated.

- This is one of the quotes or the philosophies I love the most. This was made by the well known Chinese philosopher, Confucius. Apparently, life is just simple, we are just making it complicated because we want to earn more or gain more. But if you look on the brighter side of things, you will say that you are the luckiest person in the world because you already have everything you need to have. Well I didn't say not to pursue your dreams but if you think, it give you a feeling of sob, maybe you need to find another route of your life or there is a possibility that God has another plans for you and will suit your ability or what you are used for. Just simply live life to the fullest, if it is for you then it will happen and if not, don't be sad, there are still other chances that you will have.

I hope these steps will help you to get rid of your failures in life. Just sharing some of my wisdom and I  hope it'll motivate you!