Ways on How to Develop Your Self-Confidence:

 Have you ever felt awkward when approaching people? Do you look down when you talk with the person you think has a higher standard than you? Do you get nervous when introducing yourself on the first day of class or talking in front of the class? Do you feel shy when talking to people you're not that close with? Have you ever mumbled or mental blocked because you weren't feeling comfortable and been defeated with fears? Well, I can give you some tips to overcome all of these:

1.) Be yourself at all times. Yes, we can say that there are some people that'll consider who you are but there are also people who don't, so whoever you are and whatever you do, just be yourself; don't be like someone you aren't because it might just get worse but it doesn't mean not to take your own limitations. Just being yourself is one of the important things to do to build up your self-confidence--- act and talk normal---. This will pave way for you to earn more friends and give you more esteem to face your classmates in front without shaking or feeling nervous once you get there.

2.) Nobody cares. Remember, you're not the only human in which every person is looking at. Always remember that everything will work out just fine, people will just listen and look at you but won't do anything to harm you, in fact, they also experience that kind of situation so remember that everything is just tantamount and nervousness is just the product of your mind.

3.) Don't get distracted  on what you see. Sometimes, our fatal flaw is seeing people looking or depending on what we say, and it came out we're making everything worse. I tell you, you shouldn't get distracted on what you see, especially if people are looking at you from eye to eye.  I know it's kind of fearful, unappreciative feeling but you must need to fight it. Just focus on what you're doing to aim a good result.

4.) Cool down and stretch out. According to what I've researched, stretching will somehow boost up your self-confidence. Doing this will make you feel in ease and can also help you relax your muscles  for you to calm down and bring out what's the best in you.

5.) Always be optimistic. Having a positive attitude towards things will also develop your self-confidence. If you are a positive person, you will learn to handle things by your own, you can also practice leadership if you have this kind of attitude. But always stay humble---- being optimistic doesn't mean that you dominate yourself from everybody---- and if ever there are some suggestions of somebody, you should also listen to him/her in order for you to have a good companionship and understanding with one another.

6.) Stop worrying too much. For all we know, we experience that kind of attitude whenever we are assigned to make a speech, recite, explain something or go in front of the class. Worrying too much will also make you forget the things you need to say and will lessen your esteem to show what you've got . Just go with an easy flow, fear is just in you, but if you look on the abyss or the very corner of things around you, you will see that your fear is just nothing compare to the threats of the world and fears of other person which is really worth the fear. 

7.) Love everything around you. Everything that you experience and you see has its own purpose in your life. Always accept everything that comes to your way and always face all of it with no fears, worry, or regrets. Just go with it whether the outcome is good or bad. Embrace all of it and love everything you experience. Always have fun and accept everything around you and your experiences because life is much worthy if we live worthy so don't waste anytime of your life cause you can't go back already in the past, the only thing you need to do is just to focus on the person you are today, the present one, and the challenging one.

Hopefully these tips helpyou! 

My Dog is my Property

   

"My Dog is My Property"

                 This best-selling book really inspired me a lot. It was a real-life story of John Grogan together with his own family and his worst dog ever, Marley. Marley is such a mischievous, incorrigible dog of the family;  he used to break their doors, eat their furniture and even dump at their visitors when they come. But despite of these, Marley had been such a wonderful, loyal, playful, exuberant, and lovely dog. He had a lot of happy memories together with the Grogans, though sometimes, he's one of the reasons of their annoyance and distraction. I got attached to this story because I have a dog too named Isko, he is such a cute, naughty,  uncontrollable, genital sniffer dog who always makes us all smile through his loopy action and unconditional love for us. Isko really has the same temperament as Marley, in fact, he had just ripped off our tissue paper a while ago with his white sharp fiercely teeth. Of course, it was a mess, a mess that would make us ecstatic and make fun of him. Isko, like one of the hyperactive dogs who likes to rip things off, still gets tired. And yes, he also likes sleeping. Sleeping is one of the things Isko does whenever he gets bored or nothing to play with. He likes sleeping so much that he even snores so loud, and when he gets up, he has big round eye dust each from the corner of his eyes. There was a part in the story that the couple decided to let Marley be neutered because of too much arouse and having sexed with their leg and some of their visitors. There was also the time when my parents decided to lose the masculinity of Isko by having him neutered. But Isko should be thankful it didn't happen. Neutered would cost us a lot of money and we cannot afford it easily, though it will benefit Isko especially to us because his lust for sex will be over. Poor Isko, just as innocent dog as he is, should be thankful my parents didn't continue ending his masculinity. Well for me, it's normal for dogs especially male dogs to get into this stage finding a mate and let do-what-you-get thing popped out in their minds, but hopefully someday, they might stop the urge of taking it as an advantage as they grow up and reached the stage of maturity. Their are a lot of things I like from Isko: He likes to chase cats, dogs, insects, rolling objects and as well as US.. well yeah, sounds annoyance but it's  true, I like it when he does that, sounds sarcastic right? I know.. I know.. please pardon me.. Oh well, here is the funny thing when Isko chases me, whenever he chases me, he's like a cheetah, yes probably a cheetah cause he really runs so fast and I couldn't run without sliding, stumbling, or outbalancing myself, then it turned out I'm already limping. Yeah, sometimes it's fun to tease and play with dogs but be careful, it's sorta kind of dangerous thing to do. Poop. Oh yes poop, I'm really having a hard time to get Isko's poops out, I usually ask guidance or help from my mom to get the poop of Isko. I could even say "This is the ever worst time of my entire life!!". Isko usually sleeps with us at night, but he's always sleeping beside my mom's mattress. He feels like he's also a human that's why I always call him "feeler" , and apparently, Isko's really a feeler, he thinks that he is the dominant among the members of the family. There are also times when Isko,  looks at the mirror to see his face,  then I was like hiding behind the door of our bedroom, crazily hiding from him watching as he look at his face at the mirror just in front of our stairs, I always hear him whimpering and whining desperately like he's resenting himself from being just a dog and not like us. There are a lot of things and funny moments I had with Isko, but of course, I can't write all of it here. Thanks for reading my precious and lovable moments with my dog, I hope I made you laugh of these. But just another tip for you: Always treat and love your dog like one of the members your family because in return, that dingo will soon return the favor you have given to him/her.